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Boudoir photos~ What is your fear? Lets talk!

Have you been thinking about having a boudoir session but are scared? 

You don't want your images online for everyone to see. 

You are worried you aren't "fit" enough yet?

These are a few of the concerns women have expresses to me. Let me take some time and put your concerns to rest. 


Fear: My images will be all over social media! I can't have my neighbors, co-workers and everyone at church seeing photos of me "like that".

Fact: I NEVER post or share any image with out written consent by my client, that is why I photograph models for promotional purpose. Your images will only ever been seen by myself and whom ever you decide to share them with. 

Fear: I don't want to pose in my underwear and bra... that just isn't like me.

Fact: Many of the women I photography are in t-shirts, dresses, and anything they would like. The wardrobe is up to you. I offer wardrobe consultation I am here to help you express yourself through the image. 

Fear: I will feel so awkward. I won't look nice any of my pictures.

Fact: I strive to talk and communicate with you on every step of the process. I have to make you feel comfortable and look beautiful or I am not doing my job, and I fail. I work to earn your trust, and make sure you are the focus of the session each person's session is different. I offer comfortable private space for you to change. 

Fear: I don't know how to pose, or what to do. 

Fact: That is my job, that is what I am trained and have studied to do. I show you poses that are comfortable for you and your body. Each unique body is photographed from the most flattering position, and lighting is used to accent you just right. 

Fear: I am just to old
Fact: Simply put, no you are not. You are never to "old" to be beautiful.

In conclusion I would love to say you are beautiful the way you are but, every woman wants to look and feel pretty from time to time. It is fun to feel good. I have so many stories of women messaging me after they receive their images and tell me they had no idea how pretty they were. This is such and amazing experience for both myself and the women I photograph. Contact me 716-969-0005 and let me answer any of your questions.

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